The LGBTQ bars in New Jersey are a vital part of keeping in-person connections alive for our community. As the most densely populated state in the union, the Garden State is a true melting pot. Our state represents what it means to be American: no matter who you are or where you come from. We all deserve a chance to live in harmony and find others with whom we can share solace. With so much diversity packed into such a small space, it’s no surprise that we have historically had one of the most thriving queer communities in the country.
Now that Pride Month is in full swing, it’s the perfect time to celebrate the spaces that foster connection, belonging, and identity. LGBTQ bars are more than just places to hang out — they are safe havens where queer people are not alone. Before apps like Grindr made their way into the world, the “gay” bar was the only place people found connection.
There were so many places back then that allowed the LGBTQ community to forge relationships with people who were like them and feel understood. These hangouts — that some now call “third spaces” — show us that we’re not all that different and that there are others who understand what it means to be unique.
We miss the dozens of gay spaces that are long gone throughout our state. But there are still great places to call your own and where you may enjoy meeting new and old friends.
Byrdcage
Say hello to the newest gay bar in New Jersey. Nestled in the heart of the state’s biggest tourist destination, Atlantic City, the ByrdCage is on a mission to reignite the gay nightlife scene in a shore town that once thrived with dozens of LGBTQ venues. Since opening in January, ByrdCage has aimed to be more than just a bar and restaurant — it’s a celebration of inclusivity, community, and unforgettable experiences.
The 244 Spot
If you look at a map of all the gay bars in our state, you’ll notice that a good chunk of them are in North Jersey or Asbury Park. Meanwhile, Central Jersey experienced something of a gay bar drought. Thankfully, The 244 Spot has stepped in to help fill that gap, offering the local LGBTQ community a much-needed safe space. Located in South Amboy, this venue opened in 2023 and has proved to be a big success. Known for its vibrant atmosphere and nightly events, The 244 Spot has something for everyone, from karaoke nights to Bear Cave Friday to dance parties with live DJs spinning high-energy beats.
Club Feathers
Just minutes away from the Big Apple, Feathers offers a classic gay nightclub experience. Feathers has been open since 1978. It currently holds the title of the oldest gay bar in New Jersey. Its long-standing history is a testament to its enduring charm. This is a spot you won’t want to miss, whether you’re out with friends, loved ones, or flying solo. Its close proximity to New York City also makes it a perfect first stop for a night of club hopping. Kick off your evening at Club Feathers, then head into the city to explore everything the Big Apple has to offer into the early morning.
Georgies Bar
Located in New Jersey’s premier LGBTQ town, Asbury Park, Georgies is a cornerstone of queer Jersey Shore culture. It’s one of the best spots to unwind after a summer day on the town’s beautiful beach. It offes a more intimate and laid-back vibe than some of the louder venues nearby. Since opening, Georgies has been committed to creating a space where everyone feels welcome, without judgment. This summer, they’ll be hosting fundraisers and an exciting Pride Weekend event you won’t want to miss.
Pint Bar
Pint has a long and colorful history. Since opening its doors in 1911, the location has seen many different owners and names over the years. Today, it’s a beloved queer nightlife spot. It is located in Jersey City’s historic downtown and a mere minute from the Grove Street PATH trains. Pint is perfect for anyone craving that big-city energy without crossing the Hudson. With 50 craft beers to choose from and a signature 16-ounce cocktail, it’s the ideal place to get happy after a hectic week. If you’re looking for a fun, welcoming atmosphere, Pint is where you want to be.
Paradise
Located just across the street from the world-famous boardwalk and beach in Asbury Park, Paradise lives up to its name with a prime location and vibrant atmosphere. If you’re looking for a hot spot with a massive dance floor, a swimming pool, and the convenience of being connected to The Empress Hotel, this is the ultimate destination for an unforgettable gay experience on the Jersey Shore. The scene here is much wilder and more energetic than at Georgies across town. Plus, with the boardwalk just steps away, grabbing a delicious dinner before dancing the night away couldn’t be easier — Paradise is perfectly placed for the best night out.
Six26
If you are a foodie and party animal, you belong at Six26. It’s just a block away from the Grove Street PATH station and it features a full kitchen and food menu to go along with your fun night out. You do not have worry about finding a place to eat or using Door Dash while you are having a great night out here. From tacos to salads, they have got you covered. What also makes this location special is the rooftop bar. With a great bird’s-eye view of the surrounding area, you can enjoy your cocktail while feeling like you are on top of the world. This is perfect for a summer night out to have a fun time while enjoying the warm air.
The Cub Room
Located just across the Delaware River in beautiful New Hope, Pennsylvania, the Cub Room is the perfect way to experience small-town charm and quaint vibes. You never have to leave the comfort of a thriving queer community. It is an ideal location for a weekend getaway from New Jersey, Philly, or New York City. The Cub Room is both a resort and a bar, offering food, a pool, and access to a walkable town full of shopping and entertainment. As the only LGBTQ bar in town, it holds a special place in the community and adds a vibrant layer to New Hope’s LGBTQ culture. With warmer weather finally here, The Cub Room is the ultimate summer escape for anyone looking to trade the Shore or the city for something a little more relaxed — but just as fun.
