The recent Supreme Court decision striking down part of the Defense of Marriage Act and new access to marriage rights in 14 states already with 2 more on the way have led to an increasing number of LGBT couples planning weddings. What we learned is fascinating and would be of interest to anyone involved in the wedding industry,” said Bernadette Coveney Smith, President of The Gay Wedding Institute. “By and large, same-sex couples are quite non-traditional, especially the gay grooms,” she said.
The survey of over 900 couples found interesting and surprising trends as same-sex couples plan their weddings in the backdrop of dramatic gains in marriage equality.
“This breakthrough study is the widest- reaching ever of same- sex couples, and reflects the diversity of our community – from those who eloped at City Hall to those who had a more formal celebration,” said David Paisley, Senior Research Director at CMI. “This timely survey gives the wedding industry and the public some fascinating insights into how engagement and marriage are viewed by same-sex couples.”
“We combined the knowledge of an LGBT research organization with a wedding planning company, and can now answer many questions about what really happens when LGBTs plan a wedding. From the traditions that were followed (or not), resources that couples used to find wedding vendors, the size of their wedding party, honeymoons, and much more, we have a snapshot of the landscape in a quickly growing part of the wedding industry as more and more couples marry across the U.S. and around the world,” said Paisley.
“We learned that the terms “husband” and “wife” haven’t quite caught on within much of our community, and how important it is for wedding professionals to have inclusive language and photos in their marketing materials. This information is not only helpful to my colleagues in the wedding industry but to anyone interested in the cultural change happening now that same- sex couples can marry in 14 states, with more to come, ” said Smith.
Community Marketing & Insights (CMI), a LGBT consumer research company released the results of the survey entitled “Same- Sex Couples: Weddings and Engagements.” It was produced in partnership with The Gay Wedding Institute. The survey of 916 couples was gathered from across the country, with 57% already married 19% in domestic partnership, 18% engaged and 5% in a civil union.
Major findings in the survey include:
The economic impact for states offering civil unions or domestic partnerships is considerably less than those offering marriage. 76% of couples receiving a civil union or domestic partnership did not have a traditional wedding with ceremony and reception. This research calculated the economic impact of same- sex couples getting legally married is three times greater than those receiving a civil union or domestic partnership, because married couples are far more likely to have a reception with guests or their receptions have a greater number of guests.
Comparing those already married vs. those just now engaged, the trend is for newly engaged couples to spend more on their ceremonies and have a larger number of guests at their ceremony than those couples already married.
Consistently across all questions considered in this study, female same- sex couples spend more on their weddings than male same- sex couples. For those already married, female same- sex couples spent 15% more than the men.In every category tested, female same- sex couples were more likely to participate in “wedding ceremony traditions” than the men. For example 66% of women purchase engagement rings vs. 19% of men. Also female same- sex couples are far more likely follow wedding traditions such as rehearsal dinners or first dances at the reception.
Only about half of same- sex couples fully embraced the words “husband” and “wife.” More same- sex couples prefer the terms “spouse” and “partner.”
76% of same-sex couples feel it is important to work with LGBT- friendly businesses when planning their wedding.
22% of same- sex couples used a religious leader as their officiant and only 12% of same-sex marriages were held in religious spaces.
Male couples tended to get married after being together for more than five years, while female couples were more likely to get married after being together five years or less.
36% of same-sex couples who are married have children.
67% of newly engaged same- sex couples have emotional support around their marriage from their parents compared to only 47% of those already married.
View the results of the “Same- Sex Couples: Weddings and Engagements” report and other CMI research at www.gaymarketresearch.com