The leaders of the stagnant movement for same-sex marriage are consumed with not being threatening, not rocking the boat, and in proving that we really are the best little boys in the world so that benevolence will be bestowed upon us. We have been told by NY & NJ gay elites to play by the rules and we will be rewarded. In NY we were told to work hard for, and contribute to, the campaigns of Democrats so that the Senate would change party control in 2009 and gay marriage would be forthcoming. In NJ we were told not to bring up the “M” word during the Presidential campaign of 2008 and the