I get it. All leaders must be held accountable. Thus, in the February-March issue of Out In Jersey, editor Toby Grace and letter-writer John Caminiti point fingers at New Jersey’s LGBT leadership for the marriage equality loss. Mr. Caminiti specifically takes Garden State Equality and me to task, as his right, wondering what we’ve done for the community. That’s part of being a leader: You get the criticism and you get the praise. And if a publication is as fair as Out In Jersey is, you also get the chance to respond.